What is what to do when someone leaves you on read?

When someone leaves you on read, it can be frustrating and confusing. Here's some information about what to do:

• Don't immediately double-text: Resist the urge to send multiple messages in a row. It can come across as needy or demanding. Give them some time to respond. Learn more about patience.

• Consider the context: Think about your relationship with the person. Are they generally responsive, or are they often busy? What was the last message about? Was it something that required an immediate answer? It is possible they are busy.

• They may be busy: People have lives outside of their phones. They might be at work, school, or dealing with personal matters. They may not have had the chance to respond yet. Consider being understanding.

• Check if the message requires a response: Sometimes, the other person may think that there is no need to reply to a message.

• Don't assume the worst: Try not to jump to conclusions about why they haven't responded. It's easy to let your mind wander and imagine negative scenarios, but often there's a simple explanation. Control your negative thoughts.

• Reflect on your own behavior: Have you been overly demanding or clingy lately? If so, it might be a good time to give them some space. Also, did you say something that could offend the other person?

• Give it time: If you've waited a reasonable amount of time (a few hours or a day, depending on your relationship), and you still haven't heard back, you can send a gentle follow-up message. Avoid being accusatory or passive-aggressive. For instance, you can ask about communication.

• Focus on other things: Don't obsess over the lack of response. Distract yourself with other activities and spend time with people who make you feel good. Try staying busy.

• If it becomes a pattern, communicate: If this happens frequently and bothers you, it's important to communicate your feelings to the other person. Explain that you value clear communication and would appreciate it if they could be more responsive. You can also talk about respecting others.

• Consider their communication style: Some people are simply not as attached to their phones as others. They may prefer to communicate in person or through phone calls. Also, consider if your friend has bad texting habits.